“Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself. You’ve taken care of them for many years, and you’ve taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.”
“A rather selfish point of view, don’t you think?”
If you are 65 plus, what do you do with your money, spend it on yourself until it’s all gone or use it to help your children and grandchildren if you can?
Enjoy retirement and provide for a survivor first, but why waste money that could help family.